We were studying Romans together as a community last year and this past Sunday we jumped right back in. If your missed the gathering I would suggest that you listen to the podcast to get the full context but I will try to give a recap here on trademarks view on broken sexuality. First it might be helpful to define broken sexuality. In short, it’s when humanity (including you and me) take Gods design for sexuality and distort it. It’s everything from sex outside of marriage, porn, rape, homosexuality, perverted sex inside of marriage… At the core Paul reminds us that all broken sexuality is idolatry. When we exchange our worship for God (other) and worship the created (same). It’s idolatry.
Understanding the issue of broken sexuality in light of broken worship is foundational. As humans we express our broken worship through disordered love. God says to love him first, then love our neighbor as ourself, then we come in third. When we get this love out of order we love ourself first, or love others first before God. The bible calls disordered love sin. Sin is to miss the mark, the mark of Gods perfect holiness and love.
The Bible says that all are sinners and all have missed the mark. The Bible also says that God loves his sinners and sent Jesus to die for our sin while we were still broken. In Romans 5 it says that God showed us his love by loving us when we were unloveable and in sin.
Broken sexuality is sin, disordered love. However, before we start to throw any stones we must first admit and repent of our own sin, our disordered love. At trademark we stand as broken people calling other broken people back to our good Father who loves without measure, to Jesus who became our sin so that we can be righteous in him and to the Spirit who lives in us and is now working to restore us to holistic lives of worship.
As broken worshippers resulting in our own broken sexuality …we take this stance on broken sexuality:
Trademark’s view:
Design- God made humans, he decides what is the right use of our bodies and his design is one man, one woman for life = God’s image.
“a man leaves his father and his mother and cleaves to his wife, and they become one flesh” (Genesis 2: 24). Here we have the first reference to biblically ordered sexuality.
Heaven- you don’t go to heaven because you are a heterosexual therefore you don’t go to hell because you are a homosexual. Self-righteousness send you to hell.
Love- we love all people despite race, affiliation or behavior.
Jesus bent down to the woman caught in adultery-(John 8)
Posture of Love not condemnation
Jesus taught to love your neighbor as yourself- Good Samaritan (John 10)
So as Jesus followers we follow him. We take the posture of Love and bend down beside those who find themselves in broken sexuality. We look at ourselves as well as other and admit where we have all missed the mark. With boldness and love we look to God to redeem our body, mind and spirit. We give thanks to God, and honor Him as our God. May we at trademark be the first to admit our brokenness and the first to stand with grace and truth with those in our broken culture.